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For those of us that enjoy the smoother, groovier side of electronic music. A place where we can all share the music we love and discover something we can fall in love with. Turn up the volume, add some friends and maybe a dash of disco ball and dance until the sun comes up,
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2023.05.28 08:33 QuietApplication3254 [UPDATE] My cousin sexually assaulted me when i was a kid and after several years he thinks I've forgotten all of that
Dear everyone, I didn't expect my previous post to receive so much attention. I apologize for not being able to update it directly i don't know how to update the same post, so I decided to write a new post instead. You can find my original post on my profile. I want to address a few points and provide an update on the situation.
- I want to clarify that Alan (not the real name) the person involved, is not a pediatrician but a colorectal surgeon who specializes in procedures such as treating hemorrhoids.
- I would like to emphasize that I'm not defending Alan in any way. My intention was never to hurt my uncle and aunt; I simply believed they were nice people. I apologize if my previous post conveyed a different message.
- To all those who have experienced similar situations, I am deeply sorry for what you have been through. Please accept my virtual hugs and know that you are strong, beautiful, and deserving of support. I am proud of each and every one of you.
- Some people have mentioned that by not speaking up, I am allowing more harm to occur. It takes immense courage to talk about these things because there is always a chance of facing disbelief or invalidation. Today, I decided to set aside those fears and speak out, even if it meant potentially losing my relatives' support.
Now, for the update. I will try to keep it concise, but I apologize if it becomes lengthy.
I decided to hold a video conference call this morning (as it's sunday i knew everybody would be at their home)with all the family members involved, including Alan. I used my selection for post-graduation at a good college as the reason for the call, which was true. One by one, I had around 14 people join the call, including Alan's parents, some of my cousins, and various uncles and aunts. I planned to reveal everything about the incidents after sharing my news.
I began by announcing my accomplishment and thanking everyone for their support. Then, I mustered up the courage to share the truth about Alan. As I spoke, tears overwhelmed me, and I couldn't control my emotions. I told them everything about his actions. After I finished, there was a heavy silence, but one of my cousins started crying, indicating that she was also a victim. Her experience was similar to mine, and since her family lived closer to Alan's, she had suffered more and before I did. This revelation was enough for everyone to believe us. Everyone was filled with anger and rage. My aunt was sobbing, and my uncle's face turned red with anger. At that point, I didn't even have to call Alan; my uncle took the initiative and made him join the call.
I was worried about what Alan's response would be, whether he would deny everything. When he joined the call, everyone remained silent, waiting for his father to speak first. His dad began by telling him that he was dead to him from that day onward. He called Alan a monster for torturing young children and living his life as if nothing happened. Alan immediately understood what his dad was referring to. His dad continued shouting in anger, and Alan began crying, apologizing and acknowledging his terrible mistake. He swore upon his life that he didn't do anything after my cousin and me, and that he had been going to church and crying countless nights over his guilt. (I suspect he admitted to it because my uncle, being a heart patient, could have fallen ill or had a stroke due to the intensity of the yelling. Alan deeply loves and worships his father.) In a feeble attempt to defend himself, he claimed he never had a girlfriend and said he was filled with teenage hormones. This conversation went on for about 1 hour, with Alan crying profusely while each of my relatives shouted at him and threatened him for what he had done to us when we were young and vulnerable.
Regarding my earlier mention of my aunt, it turns out she was aware of Alan's actions. She had seen him with my cousin once and claimed that she had given him "the talk" after witnessing that incident. From that day onwards, she had prevented any young child from being near him. Alan chimed in, stating that her actions made him feel guilty every day, as if his own mother didn't trust him. (It seemed suspicious to me, as if they were collaborating or covering for each other.)
To keep this brief, after the intense confrontation, everyone reached out to me again to check on my well-being. We all cried together, and I felt an overwhelming sense of love and safety from my family. They are deeply spiritual and religious, which played a significant role in them believing and supporting me. It was evident in Alan's eyes that he was consumed by guilt.
Despite the emotional toll, I am determined to check his history first (Hospital records his college records and stuff) and i will file a report ASAP.
As for Alan's girlfriend, she was present in his apartment but not in the room during the call. She happened to overhear his intense crying and left. I am unsure of what happened afterward. I spoke with my cousin, and she expressed her gratitude for my courage in addressing this issue.
If you have any questions, please feel free to ask. I apologize for the length of this post. I called everyone and did this first thing in the Morning as i couldn't sleep with all these thoughts. My mum's still receiving calls from my relatives for all the support that i need.
Finally, I want to express my heartfelt gratitude to all of you for empowering me and supporting me for this, I'm reading every comment. Your encouragement has made me do something for myself and would probably make a significant difference in many lives involved. Thank you.
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2023.05.28 08:33 SigizmundSG Nightmares
I am literally terrified to fall asleep because I can randomly have a nightmare. There's no visible causes or triggers for it. I can have a wonderful day and end up waking up at night with harrowing scream or painful moan. I can watch some disturbing and unnerving media all over the internet and end up sleeping well.
90% of my nightmares are accompanied by some sounds that I produce. Those sounds often are screams or moans, but sometimes I can shout a word or a phrase repeatedly like "Fuck!", "It is there!", "The silhouette!", "I am coming!", "Killer is there!", "Oh my god, help me, I am being murdered!"
The content of my nightmares varies greatly. It can be some real-life sudden disturbing situation like a sudden scream for help from my mother. Or me exploring some gargantuan abandoned facility at night and seeing everything in scarlet colors. Or me going to brush my teeth before bed and seeing my face being colossally and eerily distorted in bathroom mirror. Or me learning to swim with my grandfather at lake in the middle of a forest and the sky abruptly turned pitch black with an immense thunderstorm. I then started screaming "The primeval! The primeval darkness! End of the world! The end is near!" in real life. Or me riding the train and the passengers will become something abominable all of a sudden.
The last one is special because I think I experienced a sleep paralysis. I woke up in my bed in my room and there still was all of those passengers, one of them was actually sitting on my bed on my fucking legs. I wasn't being able to move but I could scream. So I screamed at the top of my lungs.
I was in a trip two weeks ago and I was afraid to sleep at the hotel. Not because of my nightmares but because of the screams they cause. I didn't want to disturb other tenants and cause panic.
I want this fucking thing to end.
I also had very psychologically disturbing dreams that question reality, blend my fears with my real life, play some fucked up mind games with my consciousness. Those put me in a melancholic or even utterly depressive mood for a few days. There is no screams or moans afterwards, just a willing to cry silently and curl up into the embryo pose.
I only described kinda typical horror-like dreams where, you know, some dark places, monsters, creepy things and like that.
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2023.05.28 08:32 Complex-Amphibian444 sad/scared for disabled uncle’s situation, don’t know how to help or what to do.
hi everyone, I guess I’m looking for some advice or even support on a situation that is out of my realm of life skills. My uncle was in a bad accident a while back + he’s now disabled. Due to TBI amongst several other medical issues, he is very confused about everything day to day and therefore has a lot of memory issues. He “loops” about every 30 min.
I spoke to some of my relatives and found out nobody had heard from him/checked on him in months. I ultimately had a welfare check done, and he was located safely. We now talk daily and are very close.
Long story short, uncle is dealing with some dark thoughts, to say the least, and I don’t know how to help him. I’m in a different state as him, the rest of my family is spread out too. He’s going through a lot, he’s in very bad shape, and he’s in a considerably remote location with no roommates or friends. He has a caretaker to help get him things since he can’t drive.
I’m struggling because I feel like I’m being handed the torch to figure this all out alone. It’s also really painful to see him like this. I’m scared that my uncle will follow through with the things he’s shared with me. He’s expressed how dark it is in his mind to 2 other relatives and they’ve kind of shrugged it off, saying things like “it’s just for attention.” I, however, don’t take this stuff lightly.
I just wanna help my uncle and see him happy. I’m new to navigating the disability stuff, is there a specific program (in the US) he might qualify for that I should look into?? I just really have no clue where to start but know something needs to be done.
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2023.05.28 08:32 Hanta_no_kage We go therapy?
So to be short and Frank , I'm 19; thats practically makes me feel like an old man as I'll be nearing 20 next year ans leaving this sub.
Context on me: So I'm a Uni student soon to be second year, introverted and slightly anti social. A lot of people in my hometown thought and still do think I'm depressed and have anxiety.
Uni had a counsellor, so I thought talking to them may help. So because I promised my close friend from college that I would go talk to someone I did( We don't talk now, not because we're not friendsbut because after collegeI cut of all contact with most people and am doing the same with the people I have met in uni)
To speed thr story along, I went to counselling and for me personally it seemed to suck cause well; in the first session the counsellor seemed to be teary eyed as I explained my boring life story etc, and in short after like 3 sessions she was like "i don't really think you need help, but I advise you go to the doctors and see how they can help you" or something along those lines.
So well I did, they give me a questionnaire and somehow I scored severe for depression and mild for anxiety and have been advised to go the a talk therapist who I will be talking to on the phone this Wednesday
So to get into the meat of my question , has therapy helped you with the big sad or anxiety?
Sorry for the non cohesiveness ans rant like structure of this.
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2023.05.28 08:32 smearylane AITOO who lost and then re-gained a fear/phobia/visual trigger?
As a kid I had a normal to maybe slightly-worse-than-average reaction to your standard horror-movie-grade "scary faces" (missing eyes, distorted features, uncanny valley, teeth, jump scares, etc.) that seemed to entirely dissolve away in my teens, to the point where the golden age of internet jump scares (kuchisake-onna comic, Jeff the Killer, etc.) never got to me.
However now that I'm in my late 20s, it's pretty much back to the level I had as a kid. It's kinda annoying that sPoOpY fAcEs get to me now, when I enjoyed several years of being able to shrug them off :P
Was that just a side effect of teenage heightened risk-taking behavior and feelings of invulnerability, maybe? Does anyone else have a similar experience?
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2023.05.28 08:31 warda_321 UK SD best breed for autism, EDS + PoTS adult handler?
I am considering a service dog (to train myself ideally with some in-person help) and am looking at breeds. I grew up with a German Shepherd so they have my heart but my main hesitancies are around their possible sensitivity, plus other people’s reactions to them.
Does anyone in the UK have experience in which dogs (if any) are more readily accepted out and about, if you go into a shop with your SD for example?
I’m looking for assistance with:
- Sensing migraines & alerting me
- Sensing faintness (I don’t know if possible) and alerting me
- Sensing shutdowns, bring me back ‘into the room’
- Sensing meltdowns (I’m more internal than external but will start picking my skin, pacing or get tearful) and helping centre me
- reminders to eat/drink, get up from my desk, go outside
- helping maintain my personal space in crowds
- help let me know if someone is saying my name
- helping pick things up / fetch if my EDS is bad or I have dislocated something
- confidence being out and about, I don’t go to many busy/loud places but would like to be more social, pubs would feel manageable more often or a day festival in a park or something
- company while hiking as it’s my favourite (only) form of cardio
I live in a small house with a big secure garden, in a city. Local small recreation grounds are within 5 mins walk for a quick run around but I drive so can get to larger places in 20mins. I’d like:
- sociable, ok in pubs or suitable festivals (not in the middle of a mosh pit or near speakers but ok on the edge for example)
- but ok with the fact my house is quite quiet and I’m often just watching TV or at my desk
- good with cats (I have 2)
- not barky
- not too nervous
- calm disposition
- ok on buses and tubes
- able to accompany hikes / a day in the countryside
- not too drooly (saliva is a sensory issue)
- not disposed to separation anxiety. I WFH but a dog sitter would be needed once or twice a fortnight for office days. I have family (with their own dogs) who would look after a dog for me if I was away for a weekend or longer. The dog (once old enough) might be left alone for up to 4hrs a few days a week.
This might sound silly but I will often walk alone so don’t want a dog likely to be targeted by thieves or that would make me seem more
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2023.05.28 08:30 notintominionism Screwed over again
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Pax canceled after I had been waiting at the pick up. Lyft won't pay the cancellation fee. It is only $3, but the principle is that I did what I was supposed to do. I deserve to be paid for my time. submitted by notintominionism to Lyft [link] [comments]
2023.05.28 08:28 little_chupacabra89 Pokemon card collection stolen years ago
Hi all. This is a shot in the dark.
Years ago (it would've been 1999-2001), my Pokemon cards were stolen at my local YMCA. I went there for summer camp, and used to bring my cards in their binder. One day, we left the main building to go to the pool and I left my binder with my bag resting against the wall. When I returned, the binder with my cards was gone. We could never find out who took them, and I to this day can't believe some kid came home with a binder full of cards and no parent questioned it. Stupid of me to leave the cards their unattended, but, alas.
Anyway, tonight I'm watching Detective Pikachu for fun and was reminded of my major blunder. I thought, "If I reach out on Reddit, could someone possibly reach out about the cards?" I won't say exactly where I'm from and where this YMCA was located, but it's Philly area, particularly Chester County.
If you read this and think you know anything about it, please reach out via comment or DM! Included in the collection was a first edition holographic Charizard, Egyptian Mew, holographic Mewtwo, and many others.
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2023.05.28 08:28 Wolfrian [Online] [PF2e] [CST] [Tuesdays] Pathfinder: Kingmaker, and other grand adventures!
Hey everyone, I'm Charlie (20 y.o., he/him), and I'm looking for 4 players to run Pathfinder: Kingmaker 2e (or maybe something else, I'm easily persuaded!) for! This is going to be quite a long post, as I only want to filter through people I already know would be a great fit for the game, so please bear with me!
- I'm looking for players with at least some experience in other somewhat crunchy d20 systems. DnD 5e, 4e, 3.5e, Worlds/Stars without Number, PF1e, Starfinder, d20 modern, 13th Age, anything OSR, etc. Experience in PF2e is greatly appreciated, but not necessary! As long as you get basic arithmetic, and how dice and modifiers work, you'll be good to go!
- I'm looking for an enthusiastically inclusive table. I'm queer myself, and far too many people in the tabletop space are queer for there to be bigoted tables.
- I'm looking for people between the ages of 18-30, but if you're above that, feel free to apply anyways! I will generally turn down people below the age of 18, however.
- Ideally, we'll be playing every Tuesday from about 6-11pm CST. This time can be negotiated slightly, but the Tuesday evening frame cannot be shifted.
- We will typically take a break halfway through, for some mental recharge and some dinnesnack/drink harvesting.
- If we have a group that is overwhelmingly new to the Pathfinder 2e system, we will spend 2-3 sessions running the Beginner's Box with pregenerated characters.
- If we are not entirely new to the system, we might run the Beginner's Box anyways! It's a great way to get to know your players and GM and is generally good fun.
- We will be using discord for voice/video, and FoundryVTT for gameplay. I have not run a fully online campaign before, so this is a bit of new territory for me!
- As noted in the note above, we will likely be using video in our games. It is not necessary for every moment and every session, but please only apply if you are comfortable with displaying video.
- Please have a good mic and audio setup! There is far too much hassle that comes with constant crackling and cutting out.
Throughout my 13 years of TTRPG experience, I've played a variety of games - from B/X, to 3.5, to 5e, to Lancer, to PbTA, to BitD, and now PF2e, which I've been playing in for about 2 years, and running for about 1.
The greatest thing I've learned with my experience is that the GM is ultimately a player too, with just a little bit more power. I love roleplaying and improv, I love tactical and crunchy combat, I love designing levels and creatures and stories, but most of all, I love collaborating with the brilliant people I meet at my tables, and throwing all pre-determined narratives and ideas to the side for the sake of which is novel and made at the table. TTRPGs are all about having fun and making shit up with a group of friends, and no matter what game or system or table we play at, I hope that we can achieve that.
Outside of this, I'm a huge music and film nerd. I'm current a student studying classical voice, and most of my time is divvied up between singing, watching movies, thinking about TTRPGs, and maybe playing some FFXIV.
That's all from me! If this all interests you, please fill out this form to give me an idea of what you're like and expect me to shoot you a DM in the near future so we can hang out and see if we vibe! https://forms.gle/HKfWdiws1X6xkNj3A
No matter where you end up, I wish you a good luck and godspeed on your ventures!
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2023.05.28 08:27 alaminkhan786 I will do linkedin lead generation, data entry, and personal assistant
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2023.05.28 08:27 gc_DataNerd PSA: If you miss your exit just miss it
FFS I’m tired of nearly being murdered on the 417. If you miss an exit just god damn miss it. I promise you the extra 10 minutes is worth it to not take someone away from their family forever. Likewise if you take the wrong exit do not swerve into the right lane again with no signal especially with cars coming twice your speed.
Also to the lady who had an entire mattress blocking her passenger side window such that she couldn’t see she was about to side swipe me. You have to be a special kind of moron honestly.
One other thing. If you see someone with a signal on to turn right off a road. They shouldn’t have to take the turn like a race car because your highness doesn’t want to slow down. I can’t count the number of times I would have been rear ended had I decided not to take a turn entirely too fast
Dear god almighty some of you should not be on the road. Almost every week there is a life ending accident from sheer stupidity. Honestly I know this post won’t reach is target demographic but Im just sick of it. I drive defensively and assume everyone around me is an idiot who will do stupid things . Holy crap though it doesn’t seem like that’s enough
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2023.05.28 08:26 Fooking-Degenerate Unexpected solution to quick pulsatile tinnitus
I developed a pulsatile tinnitus in the right ear some weeks ago and the last week or so have been incredibly bad. My work and mental health has been suffering a lot from it.
This wasn't the usual kind of pulsatile tinnitus where it's in sync with your pulse (I also get this one sometimes but it's not nearly as annoying).
This one was very fast, not in sync with heartbeats, also very strong. It would happen every 20 to 60 seconds, I would have the ear beating / thumping very strongly and fast, then it would slow down and stop, again and again.
I've seen the doctor, she prescribed me a brain MRI and scanner. In the meantime I was stuck with this very annoying and worrying condition.. and it was quickly getting worse.
I googled the internet for hours but did not find anything that looked like this issue or way to fix it.
Then yesterday I found a solution. I noticed I haven't been chewing on the right side, probably due to the fact I had to have some dentist work on this side a few months ago and I never got back the habit of chewing on both sides.
I started chewing hard gum on my right side intensely. After a day of this, the one-sided quick pulsatile tinnitus is gone.
I'm writing this here in the hope that it helps someone else in my situation one day. I am sorry about everyone who got tinnitus, I now understand how terrible and debilitating this condition can be.
Have a good sunday y'all.
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2023.05.28 08:25 KrypticXylo Love a nice plate of frozen shrimp in the mornin
2023.05.28 08:24 GhxxxstCat Refunds/returns?
Lush ocean salt self preserving really hurts my face, just too coarse. It scratched me up ): im nowhere near any stores, closest one is like 7 hours from me. How do I go about getting an exchange and returning this?
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2023.05.28 08:23 pm-me-trap-link How do I get more acclimated to theatre of the mind battles?
The games that I've run or been a player in have all used battle maps. Nothing special just a crude grid sometimes drawn on a whiteboard. But always a map.
I started playing with some old friends that don't live near me and their DM doesn't use grids and I'm trying to adjust but its hard. He isn't new to the game but is new to DMing. They have a ton of figures so I'm a bit surprised by the lack of a grid map.
I feel like I'm constantly slowing down the game asking about the relative distance between myself and everything else. How big is the room, how many ways in and out, etc. It just feels way less tactical and slower, the the pace is largely me asking all the questions.
Its very hard for me to keep everything in my mind's eye.
Another problem is for me combat encounters are a palette cleanser for the next roleplay segment. Lets me refresh my roleplay battery. But without a grid it has that loosey-goosey roleplay feel and I feel like I'm using the same roleplay "battery" for lack of a better term and it never gets to recharge.
I'm gonna ask him if we can use a grid, but assuming he doesn't want to how do I find a way to have fun with this no map style?
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2023.05.28 08:23 Top_Hedgehog_6366 Original Planet Name: Ivybur
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Playing on (not series) Xbox One S. Let me know how it fairs on other platforms. submitted by Top_Hedgehog_6366 to NMSCoordinateExchange [link] [comments]
I have a favor to ask. I REALLY like this planet and would appreciate any high end tech travelers to send me pics of this place looking it's best.
If you're going to visit this planet it's best you know that the more advanced the terrain becomes the more unstable the game. You only have about 5-10 minutes before it's game over.
The game is at it's most stable near shorelines so beach front properties are all my console can afford.
There is a hot rain every now and then but that only adds to the environment.
2023.05.28 08:22 createpotential Heidelberg Poem translation help
I recently visited Heidelberg for the first time from Australia. I was in Germany for a business trip but took a few days to explore. I have strong German heritage (3 of my grandparents are German and both my parents were born in Germany) but this was my first time visiting so it was quite a journey of discovery for me and I absolutely fell in love. Especially with Heidelberg! While in Heidelberg, I bought this old print from a book store with a poem on the back and have attempted to translate to English including the rhyme. Thought I’d share in case anyone is interested but also if anyone has any suggestions to improve my translation. It was written in 1806 so my interpretation of the old German might not be right. Here is what I came up with:
And there as around the bend I drew A cool breeze toward me blew The Neckar out from Green Halls roars Resounding in the field with joyful applause Along the river the city stretches down With all the noisy sounds of a lively town And over on the breast of the mountain green Rests large the castle, a sight to be seen There my gaze toward heaven was drawn and I saw a work of God being born From ‘kingschair’ to sacred ‘mountain scent’ I saw bursting a golden fracture rent I saw the arch of the peace rainbow And saw him again in the rippling river flow
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2023.05.28 08:21 Manushi_ Constant ear blockage that does not go away.
I am 20F. I don’t know what exactly this is or if it is anything at all but I’ve been constantly feeling this since a few months so I’ll list down my symptoms:
Continuous ear blockage throughout the day. Constantly have to pop my ears. No problem in hearing as the doctor did an audiogram and said everything was fine. There was no wax in my ear and little fluid build up that was there was removed. However the blockage has still persisted.
Moreover, I sometimes have pain behind my right ear and near the corners of my eye. Recently, have nausea at night when i am lying down.
Please help me out. This ear blockage is so inconvenient, i hate it so much. And despite being to the doctor twice, he said that everything is normal and does not know what it could be. I feel like I haven’t provided adequate information so please feel free to ask for something you think might be relevant.
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2023.05.28 08:20 AMDFrankus MVD Question
OK, I've lived here 8 years but my license from my old state, which are valid for 10, just expired.
I've heard they don't actually issue your license or ID at the MVD like literally everywhere else I've lived and they mail it instead.
Is that true, and if it is why is that?
It's nowhere near as secure, people break into mailboxes all the time, postal service is far from perfect and sometimes loses stuff, and really, it just sounds like an excuse to waste time and make work for a contractor that someone at MVD's mothesistecousin/dog owns.
Pardon me for sounding conspiratorial but that makes no sense any other way. If even a backward hellhole like Florida can and does issue your license in the office what's the reasoning to not do it here?
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2023.05.28 08:20 nutellablanket Girlfriend (27f) got upset after I (29m) met one of her friends (27f) for the first time
To start off, I'm on the autism spectrum, so a lot of social norms are kind of "over my head", and in social situations, I typically just default to asking people questions - I genuinely like to get to know people, and this is the best way I know how. I'm hoping you all can help me figure out what I'm missing and how I can make future friend meetings go better.
My (29m) girlfriend (27f) and I have been dating for roughly 18 months now. Yesterday, I met one of her (female) friends for the first time at my partner's place, where we all sat around and just talked.
I asked them both what they both had been up to, if my girlfriend got anything fun at the vintage shop, how they liked their lunch outing, etc.I then asked the friend different questions - how her life in LA was and if it was nice to get a break from things there, how acting and her stand-up acts were going ("Because my gf tells me it's going well!"), and other random things... stuff I thought was just genuinely getting to know this person my girlfriend has known and loved for nearly two decades. This friend -- given the kind of career paths she's pursuing in acting and stand-up -- also liked to talk a lot and tell stories, so I just kind of listened and gave little comments.
Her friend asked me questions back like how I'm enjoying law school, what I'm doing on my summer break, if I have tattoos, etc. All random stuff I thought was someone... getting to know me?After a few hours of hanging out, the friend suggested we all watch a movie we talked about, to which my girlfriend said, "Yeah, but girls only," in a joking manner, but even I got the memo.
Anyways, later that night my girlfriend texted and was upset about the whole hangout - she said I:
- completely ignored hedidn't include or talk directly to her at all
- I thought I did with the above plus responding to some of the friend's stories, comments, or questions by tying things back to my girlfriend and things she told me or that we did together
- was mean by poking fun at her
- we were all making little jokes about one another's eating habits at one point, but I thought this was all in good fun
- was just trying to win over her friend
- I wasn't - I was just trying to converse with someone my girlfriend insisted I meet. I also have not had any sort of attraction to this friend or the others...
- Maybe it was because I laughed at the friend's stories and jokes? Which should be understandable because she's an up-and-coming comedian and was genuinely funny, right?
- made her feel like she could just be anyone
- this stems from me asking other people about themselves; my girlfriend said it just looks like how I was with her on our first date and asking her all of these "get to know you" questions. The point being: if I'm able to so easily converse and ask meaningful questions with anyone, how special is our relationship?
- Note that this has only been problematic with my gf's female friends - it's likely a combination of her guy friends being less chatty in general, and maybe she doesn't hear me asking the same questions to her guy friends?I did, in fact, get similar talks like this from my girlfriend the two other times I met her close (female) friends.
I don't know if there's something I've been missing in all of these interactions, or how to be less inquisitive?I also don't know exactly what to be asking my partner in these situations - I have no problem tying her into the conversations or referring to things my girlfriend has told me (or that we've done together), but I don't know what to ask my girlfriend in these situations to include her or what to even talk to her about that would be new ... we already see each other every day and talk/text a lot, so there's not much to be filled in on.
I want to be more inclusive, but I don't know how to go about that right now - the only thing that comes to mind is not asking much or responding in-depth when I meet these new people? But then I feel like I'm shutting down a part of myself and not being genuinely me. TL;DR:
Each time I've met one of my girlfriend's friends (F) for the first time, she gets upset with me after for how it went / how she felt like she was treated or ignored even though I thought the times were good, inclusive, and we all had fun.
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2023.05.28 08:19 BannockBnok Is it me or are the people who play vrc really weird?
I'm not sure, with friends the game is fun as hell, but then I go to public lobbies by myself and people are just so difficult to hold a conversation with. For one example I was playing that murder mystery game, and after the murderer won some random just went on and on about some "I'm gonna dox you and track you down and beat you" joke to the guy. It hit me as just weird, not funny in any way, and the person when on for a full 45 seconds thinking they're the funniest human alive. And what made me more uncomfortable, some other person then joined in discussing how it's more fun to torture than beat the guy. Is this really the community? Are people's social skills so underdeveloped that this is the best conversations we get? Nearly every experience I've had in public lobbies are similar; It's either little kids who are always yelling, or people who's voices sound mature, but they have the humor of a 13 year old and the social skills of a hamster. Am I looking in the wrong places for others to chill with, or is the community just odd like that?
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